Thirteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

LSW children

Year B

Thirteenth Ordinary Sunday

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God helps us if we help ourselves

Having faith

Points to note

The reading is part of a much longer reading, long enough as it is.  In the longer version, Jesus had a detour: he met the woman with a haemorrhage, who believed that if she could just touch the hem of his cloak, she will be well again.  The point here is the same:  trust in Jesus and you will be healed.  As such, I have opted for the shorter version, which has the same point in it.

Liturgy

Acclamation before the Gospel

Alleluia!  Alleluia!

Our Saviour Christ Jesus banished death,

and he has proclaimed life through the Good News.

Alleluia!

Gospel

In last Sunday’s reading, we saw how the disciples depended on Jesus for help when they were frightened.

A Reading from the Holy Gospel according to St Mark

(Mk5: 21-43)

When Jesus had crossed in the boat to the other side, a large crowd gathered round him and he stayed by the lakeside.  Then one of the synagogue officials came up, Jairus by name, and seeing him, fell at his feet, and pleaded with him earnestly, saying, “My little daughter is desperately sick.  Do come and lay your hands on her to make her better and save her life.”  Jesus went with him and a large crowd followed him.

While he was still speaking some people arrived from the house of the synagogue official to say,” Your daughter is dead: why put the Master to any further trouble?  But Jesus had overhead this remark of theirs and he said to the official, “Do not be afraid; only have faith.”  And he allowed no one to go with him except Peter and James and John the brother of James.  So they came to the official’s house and Jesus noticed all the commotion, with people weeping and wailing unrestrainedly.  He went in and said to them, “Why all this commotion and crying? The child is not dead but asleep.” But they laughed at him.  So he turned them all out and, taking with him the child’s father and mother and his own companions, we went into the place where the child lay.  And taking the child by the hand he said to her, “Talitha, kum!”  which means ‘Little girl, I tell you to get up.’  The little girl got up at once and began to walk about for she was twelve years old.  At this they were overcome with astonishment, and he ordered them strictly not to let anyone know about it, and told them to give her something to eat.

This is the Gospel of the Lord

Discussion

Have you ever asked anyone for help before?  Get the children to talk about specific situations and what happened during these situations.  Focus on the people who helped them and how those people did it.

Sometimes, when people help you, there are conditions: you must do something for them to help you.  For example, Daddy is not going to help you with your homework if you are not going to do any of it.  Mommy will lift the iPad ban if you promise not be naughty again.  Do you have any other examples?  If possible, lead the children to the examples of helping that they mentioned just now.  

Are there any examples where you are helping someone and they do not say thank you or show appreciation even as you do it (imagine if you are helping someone with drawing a picture and they keep telling you are doing a lousy job); or where the person you are helping is not helping themselves (imagine you offer to help someone with carrying things and they leave it all to you to do all the carrying while they relax), would you like it?  Let’s hope the children are not such nasty brats themselves!!  Take care though that this does not become a gripe session.

The idea here is to get the children to understand that it is common for us to do something so that others would help us.  It is not that the person helping us is not sincere; or that the person helping us is taking advantage of us; or that they do not love us.  This is just good manners as part of being good people and it also helps us learn to do the things that we currently need help to do.

It is very much the same with God: He expects us to do certain things when he helps us.  What do you think they are?  He expects us to help ourselves; he expects us to say thank you and he expects us to have faith in him that he could help us.  Link the last part back to the reading:  the father of Jairus had faith in Jesus unlike those who laughed at him. Despite this, Jesus raised Jairus’ daughter because Jairus believed that Jesus will really help him.

Thirteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Year A

Thirteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

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Welcoming

Points to note

There are various imageries in this reading, some of which could leave negative impressions if not explained carefully.  It is best therefore to concentrate on a single imagery and convey that positively.  The idea of Anyone who welcomes you welcomes me is an appropriate one for this session. 

Avoid belabouring the point of the rewards of the welcoming.  Christians should learn to welcome for the sake of welcoming and not for the lure of rewards that Jesus promised.  Welcoming could also be placed in the context of our culture of hospitality in Asia.

It may also be a good idea to skim over the first paragraph unless you are prepared to explain it well.  It may be necessary to do this for the older children.

Liturgy

Acclamation before the Gospel

Alleluia!  Alleluia!

Open our hearts, O Lord,

to accept the words of your Son.

Alleluia!

Gospel

Explain to the children that Jesus has been warning his disciples about the difficulties of being disciples.

The Lord be with you.

All:   And also with you.

A Reading from the Holy Gospel according to St Matthew

All:   Glory to you O Lord

(Mt 10: 37-42)

Jesus taught the Twelve like this: “Anyone who prefers his family to me cannot be my disciple.  Anyone who does not take up his cross and follow what I did cannot be my disciple.  Anyone who try to save his life will lose it; anyone who loses his life for me will save it.

“Anyone who welcomes you welcomes me, and those who welcomes me welcomes the one who sent me.

“Anyone who welcomes a prophet because he is a prophet will have a prophet’s reward; and anyone who welcomes a holy man because he is a holy man will have a holy man’s reward.

“If anyone gives so much as a cup of cold water to one of these little ones because he is a disciple, then I tell you solemnly, he will most certainly not lose his reward.”

This is the Word of the Lord

Dialogue

Have any of you ever had a friend or a relative who came from far away to stay with you for a while?  Did you have to prepare for them?  Discuss how the preparations were made and who made the preparations. 

When they do arrive, do you make them welcome?  How?  Discuss the welcoming that takes place.  Extend it slowly to discuss welcoming visitors into the house and other types of welcoming.  In the church, we sometimes also welcome visitors, priests or our friends who have been away for a long time.

Do you welcome Jesus?  Have you welcomed Jesus?  How would you welcome Jesus?  Allow them to talk of welcoming Jesus the person of 2000 years ago.  Then, explain that welcoming Jesus means welcoming those whom he sent to us.  Discuss the types of people Jesus sends to us: disciples, priests, people in need. 

You may wish to refer to Mt 25, the scene of the last judgement where Jesus said, “if you did this to the least of my brothers, you did it to me”.  This will lead on to the point that hospitality is not limited to the times we have visitors in our house or in our church.  It means being kind and caring.  This will involve people we know, for instance visitors that we have been talking about, and people we don’t.  You may wish to discuss how we care for them and how when we care for them, we are welcoming them and Jesus into our hearts.

At one point, you may wish to bring out the meaning of the word apostle.  The word is of Greek origin and means ambassador.  This will have a bearing in our discussion in that an ambassador is a representative of another country.  If we welcome the ambassador, we welcome the people of the country.  If we insult the ambassador, we insult the country he represents.  Therefore, if we welcome an apostle of Jesus, we are welcoming Jesus.  Discuss who, among the people we meet, can be apostles of Jesus, and how we welcome them.

13th Sunday in Ordinary Time

LSW children

Year B

Thirteenth Ordinary Sunday

Images

God helps us if we help ourselves

Having faith

Points to note

The reading is part of a much longer reading, long enough as it is.  In the longer version, Jesus had a detour: he met the woman with a haemorrhage, who believed that if she could just touch the hem of his cloak, she will be well again.  The point here is the same:  trust in Jesus and you will be healed.  As such, I have opted for the shorter version, which has the same point in it.

Liturgy

Acclamation before the Gospel

Alleluia!  Alleluia!

Our Saviour Christ Jesus banished death,

and he has proclaimed life through the Good News.

Alleluia!

Gospel

In last Sunday’s reading, we saw how the disciples depended on Jesus for help when they were frightened.

A Reading from the Holy Gospel according to St Mark

(Mk 5: 21-43)

When Jesus had crossed in the boat to the other side, a large crowd gathered round him and he stayed by the lakeside.  Then one of the synagogue officials came up, Jairus by name, and seeing him, fell at his feet, and pleaded with him earnestly, saying, “My little daughter is desperately sick.  Do come and lay your hands on her to make her better and save her life.”  Jesus went with him and a large crowd followed him.

While he was still speaking some people arrived from the house of the synagogue official to say,” Your daughter is dead: why put the Master to any further trouble?  But Jesus had overhead this remark of theirs and he said to the official, “Do not be afraid; only have faith.”  And he allowed no one to go with him except Peter and James and John the brother of James.  So they came to the official’s house and Jesus noticed all the commotion, with people weeping and wailing unrestrainedly.  He went in and said to them, “Why all this commotion and crying?  The child is not dead but asleep.”  But they laughed at him.  So he turned them all out and, taking with him the child’s father and mother and his own companions, we went into the place where the child lay.  And taking the child by the hand he said to her, “Talitha, kum!”  which means ‘Little girl, I tell you to get up.’  The little girl got up at once and began to walk about for she was twelve years old.  At this they were overcome with astonishment, and he ordered them strictly not to let anyone know about it, and told them to give her something to eat.

This is the Gospel of the Lord

Discussion

Have you ever asked anyone for help before?  Get the children to talk about specific situations and what happened during these situations.  Focus on the people who helped them and how those people did it.

Sometimes, when people help you, there are conditions: you must do something for them to help you.  For example, Daddy is not going to help you with your homework if you are not going to do any of it.  Mommy will lift the computer ban if you promise not be naughty again.  Do you have any other examples?  If possible, lead the children to the examples of helping that they mentioned just now. 

Are there any examples where you are helping someone and they do not say thank you or show appreciation even as you do it (imagine if you are helping someone with drawing a picture and they keep telling you are doing a lousy job); or where the person you are helping is not helping themselves (imagine you offer to help someone with carrying things and they leave it all to you to do all the carrying while they relax), would you like it?  Let’s hope the children are not such nasty brats themselves!!  Take care though that this does not become a gripe session.

The idea here is to get the children to understand that it is common for us to do something so that others would help us.  It is not that the person helping us is not sincere; or that the person helping us is taking advantage of us; or that they do not love us.  This is just good manners as part of being good people and it also helps us learn to do the things that we currently need help to do.

It is very much the same with God: He expects us to do certain things when he helps us.  What do you think they are?  He expects us to help ourselves; he expects us to say thank you and he expects us to have faith in him that he could help us.  Link the last part back to the reading:  the father of Jairus had faith in Jesus unlike those who laughed at him.  Despite this, Jesus raised Jairus’ daughter because Jairus believed that Jesus will really help him.